Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.

— Oscar Wilde.

Through life and my own endurance of suffering, i discover the the traits that can help you to make extraordinary and balance life are:

• Kindness
• Humility
• Gratitude
• Solitude
• Positive loneliness

No one wants to work with an asshole, but everyone wants to get along with someone who doesn’t think they are the best and supports other people’s goals while supporting their own simultaneously.

It seems that this time alone has helped me process the tragedies my life and my mistakes have produced and that is how I find meaning to endure. Life can be go, go, go and without quiet time away from technology, we can’t assess what is happening, and most of all, why it is happening. Life is too noisy to discover ideas like humility that can change your life.

It’s easy to get lost in your career or your short-term success when you focus on small things like money, followers, attention and gaining appreciation. Tragedy helps you have present moment awareness and to understand how short time is.

Seeing each other as equal rather than placing one another on podiums that are adjusted in height based on success, is how we relate to people that helps us to produce extraordinary results in life.

Your results in life are based on bringing people around you, not in seeing people as being in competition with you.

So if we are all connected to each other and what hurts another person hurts you, you may as well be a nice and cool person. It will serve you well